Therapy at its root is often "having a conversation". Therapy can involve changing behaviours, processing emotions, increasing awareness and gaining skills. You may experience therapy as enjoyable at times, as the therapist's job is to completely focus and pay attention to you. Therapy takes many forms and may include play, art and music, specialized techniques for specific issues of concern, or utilization of technological devices. Research has shown that what is most effective in therapy is having a safe and trusting relationship with your therapist. So what is most important is that you are able to feel safe and accepted and to begin to trust in the therapy process. My clients come to see me because they want to talk. They don't want to have issues. But talking with me is a way of managing their issues at the very least. And at the best, it is about solving issues. I would like to support you as we work together to sort it out. Research has also shown that what makes for an effective and helpful therapist is our willingness and expertise at engaging in reflection and our reflexivity, our ability to grow and reflect on ourselves and our practice of therapy. Therefore, it is useful and important for you to feel able to give your therapist feedback if you need to about what seems to work or not work so well for you.